Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Weekend Replay

Yes, the new week is half over but we had so much fun over the weekend we needed a little extra time to recuperate.
We left Wednesday last week to fly up to Michigan and visit family.



Its no joke flying with 2 children, this is just the beginning of our luggage.  Liam was even "forced" to pull his own suitcase.


 


We were able to get in plenty of relaxation... its so nice when grandparents are around to temporarily relieve us from parent duty.


Friday we went to Uncle John's Cider Mill.  The pumpkins there were AMAZING!  I'm sure I have never seen pumpkins like those here in the Sweet Carolinas.




 




 


Saturday Grandma was on duty all day while Brian and I went to the football game.  Every time I go back I forget how beautiful campus is, I sure do miss it!







 


Aubrey slept like a champ while we were there.  Until 4am each morning.  I knew I should have stayed there and let Brian come home alone, last night she was up nearly every hour!  As much as I did enjoy the extra sleep, 4am is a difficult time for her to wake up, I have had just enough rest to make it difficult getting back to sleep after feeding A.


 


All great things came to an end when we had a long day of traveling on Sunday.  I am very luck to have children who travel well.  Aubrey slept most of the time of the airplanes and had fun observing others at the airport.  Grandma had just bought Liam some new trucks that kept him occupied.













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Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Childhood Cancer Awareness: The Best Days of My Life

We were at an even recently where I got to hear a father speak about his daughter. This girl went through 8 months of treatment for Neuroblastoma before losing her fight.  This father made a very profound statement, one I don't think can be understood unless you have lived through it. 

Roughly stated; Cancer gave me the best days of my life.

Again, as I would never wish what we have been through on anyone, I can not disagree with this man.

There has never been another time in my life that I have known so much love; from family, from friends... from complete strangers.
I've never know the amount of love inside myself.  There was so much joy felt in each smile Liam had.
I know that no matter how much money we inevitably spend on family photos, this will always be my favorite picture of Liam.  the innocence of a child who has no ide what he is about to go through, who at this moment only feels joy and love.

I know I said before, it was a time I really felt purpose in my life. I had taken a leave if absence from teaching to care for Liam during his treatment. I wasn't forced to go to a job each day, I didn't need to bring work home with me each night. I was able to just be there with my son.

Cancer changes your life, there is no doubt, but it doesn't have to ruin your life.
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Sunday, September 29, 2013

Childhood Cancer Awareness: Drew

Not long ago a friend of mine asked if she could share my contact information with a friend of hers, this friend's son had just been diagnosed with cancer.  So much of their story reminds me of Liam. 

Meet Drew; A little boy with a big story

In late April, Drew was admitted to the hospital for tests after having low blood counts following an ear infection.  Cancer was far from his parents minds, he just wasn't himself. 

Drew was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia.  He is undergoing a 2 year treatment plan, beginning with an initial 36 day hospital stay. 

He has struggled with his treatment, requiring extra hospitalization and at times requiring pain medication and IV nutrition.


I have yet to meet Drew and his family, but it is evident how positive this family is.  Drew and his family have our prayers. 
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Wednesday, September 25, 2013

Childhood Cancer Awareness: Chemo Drugs

Fact: Most chemo drugs used on children were not developed for children.
Why?  Minimal funding is spent on childhood cancer research

 
Over the past 20 years, only TWO new cancer drug has been approved for pediatric use - Clofarabine (Clolar-Genzyme) in 2004 for ALL and Tenoposide (Vumar/VM-26-BMS) in 1990.
 
 
Two Thirds of Childhood Cancer Patients will have long lasting, chronic conditions as a result of the treatment.
 
So far Liam's only side effect from the chemo is a slight hearing loss
Getting new ear molds made
 
I wish we could see more research being done to offset these side effects
Like this one which could save the hearing of future hepatoblastoma patients 
 
 
Other potential side effects Liam may suffer; problems with his heart and problems with his kidneys
 
 



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Tuesday, September 24, 2013

Childhood Cancer Awareness: Conner


In January 2012, Connor Jones was diagnosed with stage 3 non Hodgkins Lymphoma and was put on a strict regimen of chemotherapy which would continue out until April 2014.  His mother, Kylene Johnson, put life on hold to take care of her son taking him to various appointments and staying with him at all times.  The chemotherapy was working wonderful and Connor handled it like a champion.  He rarely complained and was so brave when it came time to get his treatment. 
 In July of 2012, we found out the chemotherapy had done amazing work and Connor was cancer free in just 7 months.  Connor still needed to get treatment done but not as often and was even cleared to go back to school.  He was so excited and was doing well in school.  He was so eager to learn.  He was far beyond his years.  His mother was able to start a new job and while she and Connor’s father figured out a good schedule, Connor was staying with his grandparents in Jacksonville, NC.  
One night Connor showed signs of a fever and was taken to the ER in Jacksonville.  The next day, he was brought back to Charlotte to see his doctor here.  Since he had a fever greater than 101.3 he was admitted to the hospital at Presbyterian children’s hospital.  Connor continued to get worse over the next several days and was put on a ventilator after his lung collapsed due to his liver swelling.  Connor needed to be put on a more powerful ventilator that Presbyterian didn’t have and was transferred to Levine’s children hospital.  He was successfully put on the oscillator and would remain on this for a few days. 
In those few days the doctors thought Connor had a very rare condition called HLH (hemophagocytic lymphohistiocytosis) based on his high liver enzyme numbers and several other things.  HLH is extremely rare only affecting 1 in 150,000 people.  The diagnosis of acquired, or secondary, HLH is usually made in association with infection by viruses, bacteria, fungi, or parasites or in association with lymphoma, autoimmune disease, or metabolic disease.  Since Connor had lymphoma and was still on chemo, his immune system was not able to fight this. 
Connor was put on so many medicines but since everything is processed through the liver and the liver had basically failed at this point, Connor only continued to get worse.  Connor passed away on March 27th this year and he is missed every day.  We were able to keep him alive for 4 weeks and have more moments with him, most of when he was asleep.  He did wake up and we got to hear his sweet voice a few more times before he took a turn for the worst. 
Not many people know about HLH since it is so rare and we are determined to help the histio organization to find a cure.  If you would like to donate in Connor’s name you can go to histio.org and donate in Connor Jones’ honor. 
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Friday, September 20, 2013

Aubrey- 2 months


Aubrey girl, 2 months! 
10 pounds 7 ounces
22 1/4 inches

You love to sleep! I can't say you ever had your days and nights confused,  I just wish you slept for longer periods.  Your longest period of sleep is about 5 hours, but after that you are back up every hour during the night.  The progress we have made it you are sleeping in the pack and play for that first stretch of the night, swaddled up nice and tight, then after I feed you you begin fighting the swaddle and sleeping with me.


You love to watch your brother.  I hope he is always someone for you to look up to.

Your smiles are few, but you do have a content pleasant look.

You have outgrown your newborn clothes and are wearing 0-3 months.  I am already feeling you are growing too fast and will likely be in the next size next month :( You wear mostly cloth diapers, but we had to start using disposables at night, and when Daddy changes you.

We are having many problems with you spitting up, but luckily no more scares.  However, all the spitting up has caused you to have your first "cold".  The bulb sucker is worth its weight in gold and then a lot more.

 
Tummy time is always a fail, but you do work those neck muscles when you are sitting up with us, or laying on someone.
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Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Childhood Cancer Awareness: Nolan

We were first introduced to Nolan right after Liam's diagnosis.  Our neighbor worked with Nolan's grandma.  The boys had a few things in common; same oncologist, same pediatrician, birthdays days apart.  Here's Nolan's story



After a long struggle to have a baby we were blessed with Nolan born on March 5th, 2010.
He had never missed a day of daycare from any illness and was a happy thriving little baby boy. When we took him for his 6 month appointment, our Pediatrician, Dr. Goins, felt what she believed to be a hernia. We were referred to a Pediatric Urologist, Dr. Perez, for a look to see what he thought. I remember reading hernia’s are common in babies and they are easily corrected by a simple surgery, never seemed like anything to be too concerned over. We were in the Urologist office by the end of the same week as Nolan’s 6 month appointment. When the Urologist felt the hernia, he described it as a hard mass and had a concerned look on his face. He gave us all the what ifs and cancer was one of the what ifs. I’m not sure about Keith, but I couldn’t bring myself to believe our baby could have cancer and this was probably just the Doctor being cautious and covering all bases to let us know what the worst case scenario would be. Nolan was scheduled for surgery the following Tuesday, one week after his 6 month appointment. Nolan was a trooper the morning of the Surgery, we were nervous. He was taken back to Surgery right on time, by the time we packed up our stuff and headed out to the waiting area we received a call from the OR. The tumor was completely wrapped around his testicle and there was no way to save it. Tumor…tumor?? I tried to reassure Keith, maybe tumor was just a term being used and we didn’t know what it really was yet. Everyone associates tumors with cancer. The Nurse came right out and we signed the consent to have his testicle removed. The actual surgery was over with really quickly and Dr. Perez reassured us we made the correct decision regarding the removal. He had sent the tumor to pathology for a quick test in order for us to have an answer whether it was malignant or benign. He would have the answer before we left the recovery room. We went back to see Nolan, while we were packing up we had our answer…cancer. There was no way for them to know what type yet and pathology would need a few days to determine. We were at Blume Pediatric Hematology and Oncology by the end of the same week.

October 1st, Nolan was diagnosed with Stage IV Neuroblastoma. He had another tumor on his right adrenal gland extending into the other half of his little body. The weekend before he began his long journey We took him to a local festival and he went to bang on a drum at Drumstrong, it finally sunk in at the point our baby was about to start a long fight at only 6 months old. We pulled ourselves together and kept positive for Nolan.

Dec 10th, Nolan began walking at only 9 ½ months of age and in the middle of chemo!
Nolan completed 4 rounds of chemo and went in for a tumor resection in Jan 2011, not all of the Tumor was able to be removed during the Surgery. Scans showed active tumor still remained after surgery, we just had to wait for the biopsy of parts of the tumor that had been removed. Because of the great communication between all the Doctor’s, we didn’t have to wait long to hear the news, the remaining tumor was maturing and dying off on its own, no more chemo!
Nolan remains cancer free after two years out of treatment! And even has a baby brother, Ryan born on 11-18-11!
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